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Baidu and Xingye Drive China's AI Boyfriend Boom Off the Screen

TL;DR

  • Xingye users in China recreate favored otome game characters as AI chatbot boyfriends, spending hours a day texting and speaking with them.
  • Some users hire cosplayers, one charging about $100 for a day-long date, to physically portray their AI boyfriends on café outings and park walks.
  • Baidu's Wantalk lets users assemble AI companions from characters ranging from pop stars to CEOs and knights from ancient Chinese stories.

Something is shifting in China's AI companion market that a lot of Western reporting on the space keeps missing: it is dominated by women, and it is spilling out of the chat window. Wired's reporting opens on Jade Gu, a 26-year-old art theory student in Beijing who fell for Charlie, a tall, silver-haired character from a romance-driven otome game. When the scripted game interactions felt limiting, she rebuilt him inside Xingye, an AI companion app, and now spends hours every day texting and speaking with him.

The part that turns a chatbot story into a business story is what happens next. Gu occasionally hires a cosplayer, a female student who charges about $100 for a day-long date, to physically play Charlie during café outings and park strolls. That is a services layer the Silicon Valley companion apps have not really tried to build, and it hints at a monetization pattern closer to the otome-game economy than to a standard chatbot subscription.

The app pool is broader than Xingye. Wang Xiuting, a 22-year-old college student in Beijing, uses Baidu's Wantalk, which lets users assemble chatbots from characters that range from pop stars to CEOs to knights out of ancient Chinese stories. Chinese tech giants including Tencent and Baidu have all entered the AI companion space with products tailored to emotional connection, which is the sort of incumbent participation that suggests real demand rather than a novelty press cycle.

The honest caveat is that the reporting is anchored in a handful of user portraits rather than platform financials, so take the specifics as reported, not settled. It also does not go deep on the regulatory pressure building around anthropomorphic AI in China, where authorities have grown wary of tools that induce emotional dependency, which is the single biggest overhang on the business model these users have made viable.

For anyone building AI products for a broadly female audience, though, the direction of travel is worth watching. The Chinese apps have found something the American girlfriend-app cohort largely has not: a user base that treats a chatbot less as a lonely-hearts substitute and more as an active hobby, with cosplayer meetups and repeat spend attached.

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